Are Dominants responsible for caring for a submissive who's disabled?

Life can throw U/us M/many curveballs. They say that W/we will never be given something that W/we can't handle. But do W/we sometimes take responsibility for things that W/we shouldn't? For example, what if a Dominant falls in love with a submissive who is or becomes severely disabled, should the Dominant be that girl or boy's primary caregiver? And what happens if a Dominant has more than one submissive? Should His or Her abled bodied submissives help care for their disabled chain sister or brother?


I await Y/your responses.






Sarah

Happy Easter, Happy Passover and Happy Spring 2014

From A/all of U/us at SOS, Happy Easter, Happy Passover and Happy Spring!

Being absorbed into the vanilla world

Wwe A/all have responsibilities and activities that W/we do that outside the D/s and M/s lifestyles. But what happens when Y/you are enjoying the pastimes and commitments that are in the vanilla part of Y/your life, than the ones in Y/your D/s or M/s one?

For example, as of late. i have been doing alot of vanilla activities. I haven't had much time to attend many D/s or M/s events. As each day passes, i feel less of a desire to participate in D/s or M/s affairs.



What does E/everybody think about this?

No service needed?

I recently read a section of a website that was like a "Dear Abby" piece. Someone asked if she could still be considered a submissive if she wasn't into submissive. The person who answered her said that service doesn't have to be apart of a D/s or M/s dynamic.

What do Y/you A/all think?


Sarah 

Scening

This past weekend, I got introduced to the idea that scenes doesn't have to include sex. What does E/everybody think about this?





Sarah

Hair of submissives and slaves

I read an interesting article on another website and it made me realize something that the piece didn't really mention. Did Y/you know that Y/you can look at S/someone's hair and possibly tell whether T/they are a submissive or not? Don't believe me? L/let's look at some facts. In many cultures, there are rules on how O/one is required to wear T/their hair; especially for W/women. Some ethnicities require its M/members to cover T/their heads completely. For T/those who follow practices such as these, are SUBMITTING to a chosen culture or creed, whether they realize it or not.



Sarah

Chivalry and the BDSM lifestyle

While a submissive or slave will serve their owner within their limits, can we expect a Dom/me to be chivalrous towards us or is this something that is not prevalent in this type of dynamic?





Sarah