Anaïs Nin-the submissive

Anaïs Nin was born on February 21st, 1903, in Neuilly, France. The separation of her parents planted the seed in young Nin's mind that she may lead a life of her choosing, instead of one set for her. 

 

Up until the mid 1960's, women were expected to follow protocols and rules, that were designed for them by the members of society. One such mandate was that those who join together in matrimony, must stay together until the time of one spouse's death.

 

Wanting to follow her own path, Nin ended her formal education and became a model for an artist.

 

In 1923, Nin married her first husband, Hugh Parker Guiler. Mr. Guiler was often busy with his work as a banker, frequently leaving Nin alone for many hours each day. It was then that Nin found her passion for writing.

 

Feeling dissatisfied with her life, Nin began to seek therapy, under the psychoanalyst, Otto Rank. Through her sessions with him, Nin started to appreciate her sexuality and gender. She also discovered her need to be dominated.

 

In the following years, Nin wrote several more publications and engaged in relationships that emotionally and physically fulfilled her, thanks to the treatment that she received from Mr. Rank. Some may argue that Nin was very promiscuous and that there is more in being a submissive than sex, so therefore, she isn't a "real" submissive. Others may view her as a role model, as they only enjoy the intimate parts of the BDSM lifestyle. Regardless if she is deemed a "true" submissive or not, Nin did publicize the BDSM culture and paved the way for others to follow their heart.

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